Dear wee Ryan C. Stephan,
I know times are hard dude. You don't trust anybody, you probably won't trust me. Which is you (inception? Nevermind, that movie hasn't come out yet...). 8th Grade doesn't matter at all. Yes, all of your friends have girlfriends and exclude you. None of those relationships will last BECAUSE ITS MIDDLE SCHOOL. But it still feels pretty shitty, because you have 1 purpose to these friends. They laugh at you for their entertainment. I have a simple solution for you.
You have to laugh at yourself. You're not going to be perfect, nobody is. Take the time to see what everybody else finds funny. They laugh at you because of your reactions. I know you feel like a punching bag, and the last thing you want is to punch yourself, but it'll stop. You take the humor away when you don't react, or laugh with them.
By the way, girls won't pay attention to you if you annoy them. (I still kind of do this...). Here's the key: Talk. But more importantly listen. Just nod your head, and listen and they will think you are such a sweet guy. ITt takes no effort! And it will also help not to wear two sweatshirts every other day. You are sexy, now embrace yourself.
Lose a little weight too, freshman year it gets worse.
From,
2012 Ryan C. Stephan.
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